You have no doubt heard of the saying actions speak louder than words.
This is especially true of letting your guy know you love him since words can sometimes go in one of his ears and shoot straight out the other, which can be disappointing when you have a lot of feeling behind what you are saying.
So use these gestures that encompass more than just a quick saying to let him know how much you love him and you should receive a bigger response than ‘I love you too’.
1. Let him be himself and bite your tongue.
Have you ever watched guys together and how easy going they are with each other. One guy doesn’t tell the other guy that he should slow down on the chips, or chew with his mouth closed, or make less noise while reading. Maybe these are not the best examples but you get the idea. His traits make him who he is and the best way you can show him that you love him for him is to let him be himself.
2. The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.
Take a day or two out of the month and surprise him with his most favorite meal of all time whether it be meat and potatoes or nachos and beer. He’ll be delighted that you took the time and thought to make his favorite meal and he’ll enjoy it all the way through while knowing you cared enough to make him happy.
3. Suggest that he go out with his friends.
Instead of just giving him the okay to go spend the night with his friends when he asks you, surprise him and suggest that he goes out with them. Hanging out with them makes him feel good, that’s why they are his friends, and if you are the one who wants him to feel good then he’s going to view you as someone who really cares about him.
4. Stroke – his ego. What did you think I was going to say?
I’m not saying to make him think that he’s the best thing in the world since sliced bread but when he does something great or something that he’s proud of then you should be letting him know that you are proud of him as well. With your added input into how well he did he’ll feel that much more special about the accomplishment and that much more in love with you. Side note: Use this idea in the bedroom as well but don’t be fake or overboard about it.
5. Indulge his fantasies.
Has he mentioned something about you being in a school girl uniform or does he refer to other situations while you are having sex? If he has then you know it’s a fantasy of his and let me guarantee you that when you come around the corner in you outfit, he’s going to know you love him big time. If he hasn’t mentioned something then playfully ask him one day.
Every guy has a fantasy and as long as it’s within your limits he’s going to be super happy he’s got a girl that would do that just for him.
All of these ideas will make him realize how much you love him and care for him by breaking the cycle of the everyday words of I love you. He’ll appreciate your love and return it to you and you’ll be in a circle of real love which is one of the best places to be.