Just like anything else in life, you have to put extra effort into your sex life if you want it to improve or take it to the next level. It doesn’t have to feel like hard work, though. Here are the best ways to take your time in the bedroom from boring to mind blowing!
1. Break out of your routine.
Most of us are guilty of falling into some sort of daily routine. For example, a typical day might look like this-wake up, go for a run, go to work, come home, eat, and fall asleep watching mindless television. You’re simply too busy or too tired for sex, or just too bored. If you fall into this category, it’s time to shake things up.
Take a spontaneous trip out of town with your lover-even if it’s just one night in the next city over. Make reservations for a romantic evening out. Make out on the street corner like you are teenagers. It can be anything, but it should be different from your day to day routine.
Talking about your sex life is a great way to improve it. Maybe your partner thinks you’re completely satisfied because you’ve never said anything, so making him aware of the problem gives him the opportunity to fix it.
Some people might want to avoid discussing sex problems because it seems awkward, but in reality, discussing your sex life together actually brings you closer and increases the intimacy that you share. Plus, it can be fun and exciting to brainstorm ways to spice things up, and unites the both of you like a team, working together to keep each other satisfied.
3. Build the anticipation.
Sex is more than just sex. It’s the sexy text messages you send each other throughout the day, it’s the lingerie you tease him with, or the new sheets you’ve put on the bed. Building the anticipation means that sex isn’t something that you do once in awhile, it’s a part of your life.
Keeping the reminders of sex front and center makes it a constant reminder so it’s nearly impossible for it to get swept under the rug. So keep on sending sexy text messages, rubbing up on each other in the hall or even snuggling for an extra ten minutes in bed before you have to get to work. Small gestures like this can really add up and increase your overall sexual experiences together.
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